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How To Make Consistency Your New Measure Of Success?
Using consistency as a new measure of success allows you to feel the way you want to in the process of getting to where you want to go.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Aug 17, 20233 min read
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How To 'Anchor' Yourself In The Midst Of Chronic Overwhelm?
'Anchoring' is a skill that helps you feel grounded, physiologically safe, and psychologically engaged. Here are 3 questions to consider!
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Aug 10, 20233 min read
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How To Practice Discernment As A Skill?
Practice differentiating between what you want and what you need in the face of change, challenge, & opportunity. 10 questions to consider!
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Aug 3, 20233 min read
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How To Turn 'Practice' Into A Skill?
What if instead of 'practice makes perfect', practice is actually meant to make possible? What if 'practice' is a skill worth developing?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jul 27, 20232 min read
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How To Make It Through The 'In Between' Moments When Facing Change?
What skills do you need to navigate the 'in between' moments when facing change, challenges, and/or opportunities? Check out 5 key skills!
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jul 20, 20233 min read
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How To Create Certainty In The Midst Of Uncertainty?
What if change and uncertainty don't have to be so hard or disorienting? Check out the following anchoring tools.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jul 13, 20233 min read
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How To Celebrate Wins Without Getting 'Complacent'?
Today's invitation is to reframe the starting point. What if you're already enough *and* you can build on that foundation?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jul 6, 20233 min read
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How To Make Peace With Hard Choices?
If these choices are the cards you've been dealt, then how do you want to play them?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jun 8, 20233 min read
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How To Keep The Big Picture In Mind?
Learn how to navigate moments expansion & contraction in your everyday life long enough to remember what it is that you're working towards!
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Jun 1, 20232 min read
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How To Stay Motivated?
Chances are that you're the type of person who wants to accomplish things, succeed in your own way, and move the needle on something...
Valentina | Leadership Coach
May 25, 20232 min read
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How To Have Hard Conversations? Start With The Nervous System
Learn ways to help your nervous system (NS) and the other person's NS understand that having hard conversations is physiologically safe.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
May 18, 20232 min read
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How To Help Others Feel Safe Around You?
What if physiologically safe co-regulation is a vital part of your overall well being, contentment, and sense of purpose?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
May 11, 20233 min read
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How To Allow Yourself To Rest When You Need It?
You're not broken. So, there's no needing for fixing. There's only a need to break the cycle of chronic overwhelm that costs you money.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
May 4, 20233 min read
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How To Know When 'Doing The Work' Is Actually Working?
What if you could notice three markers of progress? Learn more about the importance of intensity, frequency, and recovery time.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Apr 27, 20233 min read
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How To Prevent Burnout? Part 2: Expanding Your Definition Of Success
Part of challenging mainstream ideas of success requires challenging the ideas of what you need to succeed in the first place. How?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Apr 20, 20233 min read
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How To Prevent Burnout? Part 1: key ingredients
Three key ingredients: work, support, and rest/recovery. Let's talk about it!
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Apr 13, 20233 min read
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How To Be In The Moment 101?
I gift you 6 questions in the hopes that they serve you as much as they have served me. You deserve to feel fully alive and present.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Apr 6, 20232 min read
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How To Recover From Burnout? (Part 4: Add More Joy To Your Life)
If joy is a form of rest that also supports different types of rest, what types of joy can you notice and sprinkle throughout your life?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Mar 30, 20233 min read
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How to Recover from Burnout? (Part 3: Seven Types of Rest You Need)
What are seven (7!) types of rest you need throughout your days to consistently replenish your batteries before you're running on fumes?
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Mar 23, 20233 min read
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How To Recover From Burnout? (Part 2)
Asking for help can be so hard. And. It doesn't have to be. Here are some ingredients and key questions to make it a whole lot easier.
Valentina | Leadership Coach
Mar 16, 20233 min read
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